I hate how you see me! "A hell of my own" By Ryan Fernandez
Read this very interesting piece written by a Filipino who visited Hong Kong for medical reasons and saw an advertisement on the TV portraying Filipinos as primitives who could be transformed through training into the perfect maid. The writer, at first, admired Hong Kong, but after seeing this advertisement, went away hating Hong Kong. We never see our own prejudice and bigotry, but it exists nevertheless.
A hell of my own - INQUIRER.net
FRIENDS in Cebu never fail to remind me that everything over there is just fifteen minutes away by car. Whether it’s the harbor, the town square, or the monument to Lapu-Lapu with his perfectly sculpted calf muscles, each destination is easily within reach in the same amount of time that one takes a shower or smokes a few cigarettes.To this, I proudly reply that in Metro Manila, traffic is the great equalizer, and that everything is just about two hours away.
I say this the same way the Soviets might praise the unforgiving Russian winter that drove out the Nazis from their homeland, but also wracked the country with famine and blight. Read between the lines. What I’m saying is, sure it’s hell here, but at least it’s a hell we can call our own.
It really amazes me then that with the same amount of time it takes to go to work, I can actually hop on a plane and fly to Hong Kong. This is exactly what I did several months ago, when I went there with my dad for my PET scan.Special attention
Having pulled a muscle while playing badminton the weekend before the trip, he limped around with a stainless steel cane—a fact he did not hide, but rather exaggerated in order to get attention and special care. One of the airport staff spotted him hobbling from afar and immediately directed us to the customs lane reserved for the likes of government officials and foreign diplomats.
“Thanks!” my father said, raising his cane in salute before quickly remembering he should still be playing the part of an invalid.
The airport is connected to the rest of the city by an express train. At most, it’s a half-hour ride that cruises through Kowloon and Hong Kong proper, displaying to passengers the rolling hills and glittering skyscrapers iconic to the landscape.
On a map, we found the Adventist Hospital in a section of town called Happy Valley, a name that made me think of gleeful Chinese children, arms linked together and skipping to school, and toothless old men, waving with one hand and dangling a butchered piglet in the other.The Cancer Center itself had all the accoutrements of a hotel lobby: soft carpeting, cozy lounge chairs, and a magazine rack with a generous selection of fashion, business, and show biz weeklies. In between raiding the secretary’s counter for Mentos and catching up on the misadventures of “Posh and Beck,” my father and I sat back and watched whatever was showing on the giant plasma screen.
There were several commercials, all of which were in Mandarin, so I had to be content with dubbing them in my mind.
“Gee!” exclaimed a handsome man who was admiring a woman’s glossy, black hair. “If looking sexy is this easy, I definitely don’t need that sex-change operation anymore!”
For a dog food commercial, I eagerly translated the tag line at the end to “Better food for your dog, better dog for your food.”
What seemed to be a news alert showed masked health workers herding gaggles of geese into sacks and then whacking the sacks with truncheons. A few escapee birds were promptly kicked, but I assumed this was all part of a highly convoluted advertisement about the dependable quality of some company’s line of sacks or truncheons or both.
It was the following commercial, however, that won my heart.A well-to-do modern Chinese family sat in the living room, laughing merrily (perhaps they lived in Happy Valley) when the doorbell rang. The daughter—a pig-tailed toddler—climbed a stool and looked through the peephole. There stood a Thai woman dressed in a bright purple sash and long fingernail attachments. She put her palms together as if in prayer, and said a greeting.
Surprised, the little girl turned to her family, and they shook their heads. The same happened with the next visitor, a Malay woman sporting a colorful hijab, but she too was turned away. As if this was not enough, the doorbell rang again. This time the child found an exotic woman poised on the doorstep. She had feathers in her hair, animal teeth around her neck, and wore what looked like a fur loincloth.
“Ako’y nagmula sa Pilipinas!” she proudly said with a curtsy, bone jewelry jingling as she bended over. For a moment I was delighted. Perhaps I had stumbled into a new portion of an international beauty pageant wherein contestants proved their worth by trying to charm their way into someone’s household.
But delight shortly gave way to confusion, and then to shock. For the first time in my life, I finally saw how foreigners imagined Filipinos.
Back in New York, I had scoffed at acquaintances who had asked me if my countrymen lived in trees, washed their clothes by the river, and feasted on strays.“Oh come on!” I’d say, “Honestly, does it look like I grew up living in a tree?” But I do walk around in a fur loincloth. At least that’s what the commercial confirmed.
Just like the other women, her foreignness was met with disapproving stares by the rest of the family. That was until a neon blurb burst into the screen accompanied by dazzling glitter effects, and in the next shot, the Filipina was transformed into a properly dressed housemaid with a matching pink apron and a pink feather duster.
She lifted the giggling little girl in her arms, looked straight at the camera, and addressed viewers in fluent Mandarin. In hindsight, the commercial probably made sense as a domestic helper training service. But since I didn’t know what she said, it was the perfect reason to get offended. Up until that point, I had admired Hong Kong as any wide-eyed tourist would, humbled by its working traffic lights and neatly paved streets as compared to Manila.
Pedestrian crossings were clearly marked, and even with single lanes, traffic kept on moving. But with that one commercial, my envy flared into downright contempt.
It was unfair for me to hate Hong Kong, especially since it was all made up in my mind, but someone still had to pay for humiliating that woman even if she was simply acting.Would that family be just as cocky had they found themselves on the bad side of my town? Would anyone understand their pleas to escape the gridlock of Cubao at rush hour, rugby boys knocking on their windows?
Elsewhere, the Russian winter raged with full force, bearing down on both the invader and the innocent. Sure it’s hell back home, but at least it’s a hell I could call my own.
But back then, there wasn’t enough time yet to gather ire at the family and the city that turned down this Filipina. All there was was an unsettling feeling in my gut: pangs of lukewarm dread mixed with embarrassment and curiosity.
Outside the hospital, the rest of Hong Kong still glittered, its skyscrapers still soared as high as the mountains. On television, commercials still streamed one after another with messages propped up by blocky Chinese characters, and local celebrities spouting alien words.
The Filipina maid, still in a bright pink apron, looked straight at me. I followed the movement of her lips, but let my imagination fly:
My loincloth was too warm and itchy. Thank you, this apron makes me feel pretty now.
I welcome peanuts as a form of payment for my services.
You won’t regret hiring me. Just wait until you try my roasted poodle surprise.
菲律賓海外勞工匯款增一成三 -
《菲律賓星報》十六日報道,菲中央銀行說,菲海外勞工人數近年繼續增加。去年菲海外就業管理局派往國外工作的人數達一百零七萬。目前在海外工作的菲律賓人達八百多萬,約等於菲律賓總人口的十分之一。他們分佈在全球一百多個國家和地區,從事海員、女傭、護士、建築師和軟件工程師等多種工作。海外勞工增加﹐向國內匯款的金額也增加。去年菲海外勞工匯款總額相當於該國名義國內生產總值的一成左右。海外匯款大大刺激了菲國內消費的增長,是促進該國經濟迅速增長的重要原因之一。
What's New?
Arrow Family Album
Show off your kids! I've started an Arrow Family Photo album. My problem is: "I don't have any pictures. If you have an Arrow helper, please send me a picture of your helper with your kids, the whole family, whatever. We'd love to post them on our website.
Help with 7 year old boys
My grandson is 7 years old and attends a local Chinese school. Sometimes the pressure of helping him/forcing him to do his homework is enough to drive us crazy. Of all our customers, it seems that those with 6,7 & 8 year old boys are under the greatest stress. If you know of any good parent forums for children this age, please let me know. I found one in English (http://www.conductdisorders.com/), but would love to find one in Chinese. Hong Kong Character City 香港有品 also has some great resources for families. Check it out! Thanks for your help.
Jubilee Center Grand Opening March 23, 2008
Easter Sunday, 2008: Jubilee Center in Lek Yuen Estate will celebrate its grand opening! Rev. Reynaldo Avante, his wife and a delegation from Capital City Baptist Church will be joining us as our Chinese and Filipino congregations together celebrate our new beginning.
Jubilee Center will be open 7 days a week to serve both Hong Kong youth and Filipino domestic helpers. Facilities will include a coffee bar, Internet access, quiet areas for reading and study, as well as places to relax and rest.
Thanks for stopping by.
Allan & Ione Smith
New POEA rules rejected by groups representing migrant workers
Migrant groups reject new rules - INQUIRER.net, Philippine News for Filipinos
MANILA, Philippines -- Despite the amendments announced by the labor department, the new direct hiring guidelines for overseas Filipino workers should still be rejected, OFW groups said Wednesday.
This is because the main beneficiary of the Philippine Overseas Employment Administration’s Memorandum Circular 04 was the government and not the OFW sector, said the Center for Migrant Advocacy.
The MC-04 benefits the government by shifting the burden of attending to OFWs in distress to the private recruiting agencies or employers, “subject to various payments borne by the OFWs in the migration process,” said CMA executive director Ellene Sana in a letter to Labor Secretary Arturo Brion.
MC-04, which took effect on January 15, requires foreign employers to secure a performance bond equivalent to three months’ salary (about $3,000) and a $5,000 repatriation bond, for each OFW that they hire directly.
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New POEA regulations threaten the jobs of many Filipinos
Let's hope this crazy new regulation quickly ends up in the rubbish bin. The Philippine government is trying to make money from the hiring of maids. (They have probably seen how the HK government has raked in millions from the levy) The result is that they are going to hurt a lot of helpers. Click on the link below to get the full picture of what the new regulations mean. I expect this new regulation to die a quick death, but in case it doesn't: For our existing customers who want to renew contracts with your helpers we will charge a flat rate of $1000. Let us help you and you can avoid this new POEA regulation.
Filipinos in HK fear job loss with new POEA rules--OFW group - INQUIRER.net, Philippine News for Filipinos
MANILA, Philippines -- Overseas Filipino workers in Hong Kong might lose their jobs over new rules by the Philippine Overseas Employment Administration which, among other things, require prospective employers to post some $8,000 worth of bonds before being allowed to hire OFWs, an official of a group of Filipino workers in Hong Kong said.
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NEW Direct Hire Guidelines
Your friend has introduced you to the perfect helper. Should you ask a local employment agency to process your hiring and visa application or should you do it yourself? The Philippine government has made that decision very easy: unless you want to put down HKD $50,000 as a bond, you better use an agency to process your papers for you.
POEA Memorandum Circular No. 4 or the Guidelines on the Direct Hiring of Filipino Workers states that foreign employers opting for direct hiring have to put up a repatriation bond of US$5,000 and a performance bond equivalent to three months’ salary of the worker.
She said: “For an employer of a domestic helper in Hong Kong, this (bond) translates to almost HK$50,000. Practical and financial reasons alone will inhibit prospective employers from shelling out the amount.”
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兩人被控謀殺印尼女傭香港新浪網
- Hong Kong
警方今日落案控告兩名十六歲男子合共一項謀殺罪,他們 。涉嫌與上星期三一名廿四歲印尼女傭之死有關。 警方昨晚於大埔區拘捕兩人,死者被發現昏迷倒臥在九龍 坑村一個狗場的屋外,驗屍顯示她死於刀傷。兩人將於明 早在粉嶺裁判法院提堂。from Sina.com news
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Filipinos working in Shenzhen
Some Filipinos are taking jobs in Shenzhen where they feel they are more respected, better paid and given more room. The article below is from a Singapore news outlet.
"FILIPINO helper Mildred rarely takes a walk around her neighbourhood in Shenzhen's Futian district in China.
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File PictureHer worry: Being arrested.
She is working there illegally, and the Cebu native is one of thousands of foreign maids doing the same thing, many of them in Shenzhen, reported the South China Morning Post.
Like some of them, Mildred, who used to work in Hong Kong, crossed the border after hearing from friends that employers in Shenzhen were more generous and treated Filipino maids with respect.
'I know it's illegal to work with a tourist visa, so I tell curious people that I came from Hong Kong with my employer for a short vacation and will leave next week,' said the 29-year-old, who has a degree in business management.
But she believes it's worth the risk - a fine and deportation."
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They treated us like commodities
'They treated us like commodities' - INQUIRER.net, Philippine News for Filipinos
THERE is a popular joke among Filipino domestic workers in Hong Kong and author Nicole Constable retells it in her book, "Maid to Order in Hong Kong (2007)." A Filipina domestic helper arrives in Hong Kong at the home of her new employer who says to her, "We want to treat you as a member of the family."
The domestic helper is happy to hear this, but on Sunday, her employer says to her, "You must work before you leave the house and you must come home in time to cook dinner for the family."
"But sir, ma'am, I would like to eat with my friends today, because it is my day off," says the helper.
"But you are a member of the family," says her employer, "and because you are member of the family, you must eat with us."
Read the entire story.
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Your Child's Sleep Needs
We have quite a few customers who have children between the ages of 6-8 years old. My grandson, Ethan, who lives with us, is 7 years old, and attends a local Chinese school. With all of the homework pressure, it is difficult for Hong Kong children to get adequate sleep. How much sleep does a 7 year old boy need? I found this answer on the Internet. Please give me your feedback. Does your child get enough sleep? If not, why not? Constantly depriving someone of sleep is a guarantee for less than optimum performance, and will, cause that person to feel angry and resentful. What do you think?
Your Child's Sleep Needs
According to experts at the St. John's Mercy Sleep Medicine and Research Center in St. Louis, the current estimates of the sleep needs of children for each 24 hours are as follows:
- 0-6 months: 14-16.5 hours
- 6 -12 months: 14-15 hours
- One-year-old: 13.75 -14 hours
- Two-year-old: 12.75 - 13 hours
- Three-year-old: 12 to 12 1/2 hours
- Four-year-old: 11 ½ to 12 hours
- Five to seven year-old: 11 hours
- Eight to nine year-old: 10 1/2 hours
- Ten to eleven year-old: 10 hours
- Twelve to fourteen year-old: 9 1/2 hours
- Fifteen to twenty-four year-old: 9 hours
- Twenty-five and older: 7-1/2 to 8-1/2 hours
Baby Kingdom
I've recently had a customer criticize me in a public forum on the Internet. Many people have asked me about it, so instead of ignoring it (my personal preference) I have decided to address some of the issues raised.
First, let me begin by saying that we have never claimed "infallibility". We do make mistakes in assessing the abilities of people, and in matching people to families. Sometimes the helper is not a good match for the family, or perhaps, the helper is not as good as we thought. Sometimes the employer is not as kind as we thought. Every agency in Hong Kong, from the large chains to the small "mom and pop" business like ours will have a certain percentage of mismatches. At Arrow, we have gone to great lengths to reduce these occurrences, but they still occaisonally happen.
Mistakes in matching will occur. This is part of the business. If you expect perfection, you have definitely come to the wrong agency. I believe that how we handle mistakes says a lot about our character and the character of our company. When we make a mistake, we we admit it, and do our best to make amends. We go the extra mile in trying to make things right. We have sent our trainer to customer's homes to observe the helper's routine. We have had numerous young ladies into our home for cooking lessons. We make follow up calls and employers know they can call us anytime to discuss a problem they might have with their helper. At Arrow, we try our best to "get it right", and when we don't, we take responsibility for our mistakes.
When it comes to choosing a helper, it is vitally important you, the employer, KNOW YOURSELF, and
your family. We do our best with the information you give us, but if
you withhold information from us, or fail to consult your spouse or
family in the hiring decision, please don't come back later and blame
us. In this public forum case, we never met the spouse, and the wife
made the hiring decision without consulting her husband, who, as it
turns out, did not like her choice of helpers.
Many people want "instant noodle" helpers. If you expect the
helper to walk in, and within a few days to be fully functional, then
you need to hire a person with recent Hong Kong or Singapore
experience. Don't hire a first timer, and don't hire someone who worked
in HK 10 years ago. If you hire a first timer or someone who hasn't
been back to Hong Kong in a while, then you need to give them time to
adjust and learn to work according to your ways.
How long, after the helper arrives, should you wait before deciding whether or not a helper is suitable for your family or not? Is a few days time enough? Even an experienced person may have some culture shock or have adjustment problems. Unless your helper is dishonest or dangerous, I personally think it is irresponsible for an employer not to give them at least a month or two to adjust and learn the job. A few days is NOT enough time.
We have a number of employers who come to Arrow looking to replace
their helpers (hired from other agencies). They tell us their current
helper is stubborn, lazy or even dishonest. When I ask them "how long
has she worked for you?", I am surprised to hear "Six months or 9
months". I then ask "Why did you tolerate this so long?" and they tell
me, "I knew she borrowed money to come to HK, and I wanted her to be
able to pay off her debt first. I didn't want her to suffer
financially." I admire this kind of employer and I personally want to
be more like them. We have never claimed to have the "best helpers" in
Hong Kong, (even though we have some pretty good helpers out there). We
do, however, proudly claim to have the "best employers" in Hong Kong.
Finally,
I have been criticized for caring too much for the Filipino helpers. To
this charge, I happily plead "guilty". At Arrow we care about the
people who find work through our agency, and we care about the families
who hire workers through our company. Love is a "renewable resource".
There is unlimited supply of love available in God. You needn't worry
that by loving Filipino workers, we will then, not have any love left
for Hong Kong employers. Does God care less for Filipinos than he does
for Hong Kong people? Would it surprise you to hear that Filipino
helpers criticize me for standing on the side of employers and caring
too much for employers?
For too many years, Hong Kong agencies have taken advantage of the poor, and Hong Kong employers have unknowingly aided and abetted them. We have tried to swing the pendulum back toward the middle, and we are considered "extreme". I can live with that label. Jesus was "extreme", and was greatly concerned about the poor, so ... "why not?"
We have intentionally marketed to "people of conscience",
people who care about issues of fairness, human dignity and poverty.
Although we have a reputation for having good, reliable "trustworthy"
helpers, we don't expect everyone to respond to our approach to
business. We will continue to do our best to make sure our helpers are
competent and trustworthy, but we cannot promise perfection. We do
promise to do our best to "get it right" and if something goes wrong,
we'll do our best to "make it right". What more can ask for?
Thanks for listening! Allan
Arrow 1st Annual Thanksgiving Party
I've edited video from our 1st Annual Thanksgiving Party. Take a peek at a great party!
Philippine Job Training Brings People to Christ
We recently completed two weeks of training in Manila. I filmed a few highlight testimonies from the first week. You can get an idea of what the training means for those who attend. You can also hear the level of English of those who attended. Of course, the candidates were quite nervous about making a video, and their English is a little better than their performances. Many candidates have learned a lot of English, but have not used it in years. After 1 month in Hong Kong, many of them will have absolutely no problem communicating in English. They just need a little time to "shake the rust" off their English, and they'll be fine.
Arrow Training November 2007
I was "wow-ed" yesterday. At our Arrow training I ate some of the best Chinese food I have ever eaten. The Spring rolls were delicious and, for the first time, I ate this egg dish (5 on the plate in the middle). They were delicious. The soup was average because we didn't have enough of the proper ingredients, but everything else was fantastic. I was impressed!
Overall, the level of English in this group is quite good. I have not yet interviewed anyone with below average English. A couple of them have learned a little Mandarin or Chinese. One or two have impressed me with their initiative, bringing me coffee, etc. (Coffee is always a good way to get my attention.)
We have tried to discourage some of the ladies with small children at home, but some of them are in desperate financial need and feel they have no choice.
A word about finances: Potential employers, you need to remember that these ladies often borrow money to pay for their processing in the Philippines. If you hire someone, you need to be patient with them. If you terminate an employee over minor issues like absentmindedness or occasional lateness, bad cooking, etc. you will be hurting their whole family financially. We work with our Philippine partner to keep fees on this side as low as possible, but most women still need to borrow to pay their fees here. Some of them even need to borrow money for the bus fare to attend our training. Please have some compassion and patience.
The importance of Gratitude
"Neither were they thankful" Romans Chapter One
I've been thinking about "thankfulness" lately, thankfulness and ungratefulness. Thankfulness is a wonderful attitude to cultivate. It will protect your relationships and fill your life with joy. On the other hand, ungratefulness is a destructive attitude that steals the joy from life.
The opposite of "thankfulness" is a "sense of entitlement". This sense of entitlement says "I deserve only the best, and if I receive anything less than what I deserve, well - then I complain."
As employers are you grateful for the service of your helper? Do you routinely say "Thank you. Dinner was great!" or are you more likely to say "the rice was overcooked". Thankfulness looks not just at outcomes, but at the heart, the effort. When I pay my staff, I say "thank you, for your hard work", and my staff says "Thank you for the job and the paycheck." When I get up in the morning I say "Thank you Lord, for a beautiful day!" If it is raining I say "thank you for the rain", and I enjoy it!
If you are a "I'm entitled to", "I deserve", "the world owes me" kind of person, you will be demanding, rarely say "thank you" or "good job". Your children and spouse will be starved for "encouragement", and you will, frankly, be a "pain in the neck" to be around.
I can usually tell which employers have the "entitlement" attitude, because they start complaining long before their helper arrives. It doesn't matter that we have done everything in a correct and timely matter. If there is any small bump in the process, they get very angry. "I paid you so much money, and the helper is still not here." (Most of our helpers arrive within 2 months of contract signing). Of course, a customer is entitled to expect certain things from those providing a service to them, but there are some things we can't do.
"Can you get me a helper in 4 weeks?" No!
"Can you find me a helper who speaks fluent Cantonese, cooks really great, but cannot be more than 30 years old." Not likely.
To be honest I worry, "If the employer is this demanding with us, how will they treat their helper?"
We have helpers who have the "entitlement" attitude as well. When we find them a job, they are excited and full of gratitude, but some of them, after a month or two of
work, start to complain. If they get sick and we can't take them to the
doctor (on behalf of their employer), these ladies complain "Arrow
doesn't care for us." If we visit them in the hospital and take them
into our home, while they recover, they don't say "thank you", but
rather complain that we didn't do enough for them." They don't treat our help as something given out of love, but rather as something "owed to them".
Entitlement and Gratefulness are opposites. Don't take for granted those who live with you or those work with you. Thank them, praise them, encourage them, and you will create a home environment where everyone feels happy and appreciated. Discard the idea that the world owes you something. It will only make you unhappy and the people around you will be miserable too.
Think about it.
Treat your helper well
I try to treat people as human beings.... If they know you care, it brings out the best in them.
--Sir Richard Branson, Founder and Chairman, The Virgin Group
Do you think that the Richard Branson approach might work in your relationship with your domestic helper? Here are a couple more quotes to stimulate you.
"The end result of kindness is that it draws people to you."
Anita Roddick, Founder and CEO, The Body Shop
"What creates trust, in the end, is the leader's manifest respect for the followers."
James O'Toole, Author of Leading Change
Sounds somewhat like Jesus said
"Treat other people the way you would want to be treated."
This is the key to being a good boss or a good employee. As employers, let's lead by example. Focus on being a good employer and see what happens to the performance of your employee. Of course, a good employer will have reasonable standards and expectations, but he won't place all of the burden on the employee, but rather will bring out the best in his employees.
Part-time Help
The employment ordinance says that either the employer or the employer can end the contract with just one month's notice. It takes, on average, two months from the time you sign a contract until your helper arrives in Hong Kong. So what do you do when your helper gives you 30 days notice? 1) Ask her if she would be willing to stay until the new helper arrives and/or 2) Look for part-time help to get you through the extra month. The Hong Kong government has a service, 本地家務助理,matching local domestic helpers with employers. I've added it to our permanent links in the right-hand column.
Jackie Cheung turns to Indonesians for help
I'll be very interested to see how this turns out.
HONG KONG--Spurned by the Philippine Overseas Labor Office (Polo), Canto-pop star Jacky Cheung and his wife, retired actress Mei Lo, have turned to Indonesians for help. The couple, which has been banned from hiring Filipino helpers due to a record of frequently firing maids or causing them to resign, has asked recruitment agencies to find Indonesian domestic workers to replace the Filipinos who have left their household. Lo mentioned the resignation of the four Filipino maids during the actress' meeting with Philippine consulate officials in September. Cheung himself confirmed the resignation of his maids after learning that the couple had been placed on the Polo's watch list. "We don't know why, they (maids) just resigned voluntarily," Assistant labor attaché Leonida Romulo told Hong Kong News. The Polo had not been contacted by any of the helpers who recently quit."
Read the full story by clicking on the link.
HK star turns to Indonesians for help - INQUIRER.net, Philippine News for Filipinos
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菲傭:感激小姐救全車人
Wenweipo.com has the following encouraging story.
受傷菲傭講述歷險經過時,大讚小姐勇敢,救回全車人。
「如果唔係小姐,恐怕全車人都死晒……」經歷生死一線的車禍,唯一受傷的42歲菲籍女傭,憶述事發經過時仍猶有餘悸,不斷說:「當時好驚,好險!」並大讚老僱主的女兒英勇過人,能夠當機立斷,救回全車人性命。
她說當時剛扶著林老太登車時,旅遊巴突向前衝下斜路,車上及車外眾人都驚慌大叫司機,眼見巴士越衝越快,車上各人都不知如何是好之際,幸小姐不顧一切衝上司機位制停車輛,否則全車人都會凶多吉少。
該名菲傭續稱,她來港4年,2個月前始受聘大埔九寮下村一村屋,負責照顧林氏老夫婦。
死裡逃生 相擁哭泣
數日前林姓老僱主因心臟病發,在大埔那打素醫院病逝,昨日眾親友一起出席喪禮,不料中途卻發生驚險意外;當車停下後,各人都被嚇得哭了起來,恍如隔世,小姐亦按捺不住,情緒激動擁著一名親友不停哭泣。
張學友3年解僱21名菲傭
Jacky Cheung needs to read our article on "how to be a great employer". If you agree with him, then Arrow is DEFINITELY NOT the right employment agency for you. All of these helpers probably went into deep debt to come and work for Mr. Cheung in Hong Kong. His callousness and caviler attitude has probably financially ruined over 20 poor families. He and his wife should be ashamed of themselves. I hope he stays "blacklisted". Let the big shot clean his own toilet for a while.
張學友3年解僱21名菲傭 被列入「僱請菲傭黑名單」
張學友列僱傭黑名單,3年換21菲傭。2007/09/27 12:32
影劇中心/綜合報導演藝圈中的模範夫妻張學友與妻子羅美薇近日被報導,因3年內陸續解僱21名菲傭,而遭到菲律賓駐港總領事館的關切,最後夫妻倆一同被列入「僱請菲傭黑名單」中,羅美薇還因此聲淚俱下的表示,他們被誤會了,但領事館依然堅持不再讓他們續聘任何菲傭;演藝圈眾多好友聽聞此事皆感到不可思議,認為張學友不會這樣做才對,但劉德華則認為,雇傭之間應不斷溝通,也應互信才是。
近日於香港有一份供菲傭免費取得的月刊《filipino globe》以頭條方式報導,張學友夫妻倆被列入僱用菲傭黑名單一事,這是菲律賓駐港總領事Alejandrino A. Vicente被訪問的內容,他表示,他們之所以會被列入黑名單是因為在過去3年內張學友不斷的解僱菲傭,導致菲傭因僱用期未滿而欠下許多債務,這使得領 事館必須出面干涉張學友再聘用菲傭一事。
而張學友本人對於自己被列入黑名單一事表示,目前事情都還未明朗,所以現在發表任何言論對誰都不公平,他還說一切就 等他看完所有的報導在做說明。事實上,學友家的菲傭風波並不是現在才開始的,早在去年就有一名叫派絲琳(Preslyn-saga Catacutan)的女傭,因偷竊張學友3張私人照片與信件而遭到控告,當時此名女傭被判刑半年,此舉也遭到菲傭團體「United Filipinos in HK」的嚴厲抨擊,認為香港法院太過偏袒雇主了,此事才剛平息紛爭,如今張學友又被爆太過不尊重菲傭的工作權。
而香港同為演藝大哥的劉德華對此事表示,他不太清楚學友的狀況,所以很難給什麼意見,但是他認為主僱之間應不斷的溝通,但他也不否認,對於聘請佣人這個問題真得很難處理,因為要請一個人來家裡幫忙又要不斷提防他,那這樣請佣人要做什麼?
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